Research-based · Survivor-written · Gentle

Your childhood looked fine. So why do you still feel unseen?

Clear, evidence-based help for adults healing from childhood emotional neglect, anxious attachment and OCD. Practical workbooks and free printables from Levi G. Wilder, a researcher and survivor (not a therapist).

Cover of The Emotional Neglect Workbook by Levi G. Wilder

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The workbooks

Cover of The Emotional Neglect Workbook by Levi G. Wilder

The Emotional Neglect Workbook

Evidence-Based Skills to Name Your Feelings, Meet Your Needs, and Finally Feel Seen After a Childhood of Emotional Neglect

For adults who grew up with their physical needs met but their feelings unseen. Learn to name emotions, ask for help without guilt, quiet the inner critic and build the self-care you never got, step by step and backed by research.

Cover of The IFS Workbook for OCD by Levi G. Wilder

The IFS Workbook for OCD

A Self-Led Internal Family Systems Guide to Intrusive Thoughts, Using Self-Compassion and Parts Work

A gentle Internal Family Systems approach to living with OCD, designed to complement evidence-based treatment such as ERP.

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